“A more inclusive and truthful understanding of the working mother in America requires centering the experiences of marginalized individuals, specifically Black mothers.”
- Renée Omolade
As a founder of Listen to Your Mothers and a Black woman, I have a personal obligation to consistently consider the full and accurate history of working mothers in America. As we began our research for our most recent report, I immediately noticed the erasure of centuries of forced labor endured by Black women since their arrival on American soil. This invisible labor was more disheartening as I considered our significant contributions to the nation's economic prosperity. Black mothers carry an overwhelming burden of maintaining the American economy as both consumers and workers. However, if you do a quick internet search for "first working women in America" you’ll see many articles highlighting the experiences of white women entering the workforce during the 1920’s; a narrative which contrasts the historical reality, perpetuating a dangerous and inaccurate portrayal of the American workforce.
One of the values that I live by is Sankofa, a Ghanaian term that urges us to go back and learn from our past. In order to understand the challenges of working mothers today, we must examine our history. This begins with acknowledging the critical role that Black women, and particularly Black mothers, have played in building the economic engine of the United States.
The role of Black women in our economy originated with the founding of our country through slavery and forced labor.
“As their own families were torn apart, enslaved women were tasked with feeding and caring for the children of slave masters. The women were stripped of their identity in order to assume roles like mammy, roles that persisted well beyond the formal end of slavery in 1865. (Family Values @ Work)"
The Black Codes of 1865 mandated forced labor under exploitative conditions, with minimal to no pay, for those who were formerly enslaved. This system relegated Black women to low-wage earning roles, marginalizing them within the workforce, and explicitly took away the option for Black mothers to stay at home with their own children, while often forcing them into jobs caring for children who were not their own.
We cannot ignore these statistics:
The struggles of working black mothers reflect the foundation upon which the experiences of all working mothers in the United States are built. We must reevaluate the historical narrative surrounding working women in America and consider how working conditions today may reinforce systemic oppression that Black mothers face in the workforce and we encourage you to take action.
Here are some actions that we recommend:
As an organization that values targeted universalism, Listen to Your Mothers’ co-founders acknowledge and center our work by understanding those who are most oppressed. When we affirm, “Listen to Your Mothers”, we are empowering employers and managers to listen to the women who are most systematically oppressed while balancing motherhood and continue to show up everyday. Listen to Your Mothers offers employers in-depth assessment services, consultation on policy and benefits package development and implementation support, and training for senior leaders, managers, HR leaders to attract and retain top talent. Reach out today to learn more.